about me

I need a project

May 26, 2014

  It’s getting cold. The days are short and I can feel my mood sinking. I hate winter. I grew up where it never really got very cold and there were still plenty of daylight hours, regardless of the season. I try my best every year to just get on with it. Put on a […]

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Chicken wisdom

November 17, 2013

  This adrenal fatigue/thyroid  bullshit is like a rollercoaster. It just goes around and around. Unfortunately (for me) a large part of feeling OK revolves around some pretty intensive self care. Early nights, immaculate diet and some easy exercise.  Which would be ace if I had the energy to do these things. But if I […]

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Binge Drinking-a cautionary tale

October 30, 2013

        It might surprise you to know that I did my debut ball. I almost didn’t because puffy, white dresses aren’t my thing and I was simply too motherfuckin cool in 1995 to be into most things except grunge music and myself. But a mate and I were both dateless and decided […]

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Little Things

October 7, 2013

  Hey, remember me? Once upon a time I blogged lots and had a heap to say. I still do on the latter but I’ve had a pretty shitty 6 months emotionally and health wise so I’ve struggled to get at the keyboard to pump out posts. But I want to. I want to get […]

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Life is like a bathroom sink

August 26, 2013

      Well to be more precise My life is like MY bathroom sink.   The teeth of the occupants of this house are getting brushed and most of the time our hair is too. Mostly with the brushes that are specific to that region of the body too. Mostly. I see all the […]

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July 11, 2013

    I remember one time, when I was about 16,  dancing on a picnic table in on a balmy summers night, in bare feet and short shorts. Then a group of us stripped down to our underwear and ran to the ocean and swam in the milky blackness. It was kind of terrifying and […]

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March 19, 2013

The year after Tannah was born was the hardest year of my life. PTSD from the birth and PND that I refused to let anyone in on. I spent a year treading water with bricks on my feet. I managed to fool everyone into thinking that I was OK. Only I knew about the sobbing every day […]

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Odd One Out

February 7, 2013

    Oh I’ve written this self indulgent wank of a post a few times and deleted it. But I’ve decided to press on.   I have always felt that I have never quite fit in anywhere. I get that I’m a bit odd and mostly I’m OK with that. In fact I quite like who I am and have […]

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